Cape Cod Wedding Planner Tips by DJ Tom Tuttle

After helping couples plan their weddings for close to 30 years, veteran Cape Cod DJ Tom Tuttle has one helpful tip for those who are newly engaged.  As a courtesy, Tom offers this advice to every bride who chooses him to DJ their wedding.

Once you've set your wedding date, try to accomplish one wedding planning task per day.  Many couples I've worked with have either waited until the last minute to plan their wedding, or tried to do it all at once in the beginning.  Does this sound enjoyable to you?

There is a better way.  My wife used the one task per day approach and it really helped. It made our planning fun, and we avoided would can often be a stressful process.

It may not seem as though you're accomplishing much as you go through your planning process, but approaching it in this sensible way will really pay off as your wedding day draws near.

Making one phone call or sending an email adds up, and you're moving in the right direction.

Couples who try to do everything at the last minute are usually stressed to the max.

Couples who plan a little at a time are often much more relaxed, helping them to better enjoy their wedding day.

Here is one task you can do today:

Do a Google search and type in "wedding organizer."  (I'm not talking about a human organizer, but about finding a program, or software to help you.)

You will find many good programs available on the web.  Do some research and find one that best suits you.

Your wedding organizer will help you see everything that needs attention before your wedding. It will act as your road map.

With all of your tasks spelled out in front of you, it will be much easier for you take one little step each day toward making your special day stress-free! - TT